Do you ever feel stuck? Do you believe certain things have to occur before you consider taking other steps? Do you perceive how this other person needs to change first, so you might respond differently too? Why is that?
Do you see in the need to orchestrate certain things within your life, you’ve neglected to address the elephant in the room? That elephant is ego. Ego and the egoic mind are running amuck and operating this way, oftentimes in plain view. Do you understand how so much mental controversy exists when you enlist life in a reactionary way?
It’s like letting the patients run the asylum. The controversy, perceived to be in play, is routinely not supported by facts. Many times these things are merely suppositional. Can you look at the angst which arose and see how these things are triggers for you? Oftentimes, the trigger is unique to you alone.